Sunday, January 31, 2010

Puppies!


Last night Navy finally had her puppies!  8 healthy little ones... They are all so cute and tiny but she won't let any of us near them (Or her for that matter).  After the first one was born (above) she seemed to be okay with Tim in the room but then when the second one started coming she wasn't having an audience.  She growled at all of us when we would try to peek in at her progress.  I am just grateful they are all healthy and Mom's doing alright!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Hi Ho... Hi Ho... It's back to work I go...

Monday I started a new job for A&T Plumbing as their Office Manager. Boy has it been strange! I got to work on Monday and the owner Andre explains to me that he has no idea what the person does that sits behind my desk and hands me a stack of paperwork that needs to be done. He proceeds to leave my office and head upstairs. Good thing I didn't exaggerate in my interview! Luckily I was able to figure out their process pretty quickly and as of 4:00 today I have accomplished the last 2 months worth of work. I am not sure whether this is a good or a bad thing... I am hoping there is more to my job than I am seeing although I highly doubt it. I honestly can't see how this can remain a full time job, but I will remain hopeful until I get my head around all of it. The worst thing about going back to work has definitely been my schedule, in order to accommodate Austin's carpool I requested to start work at 9:30. Well, I didn't really do the math beforehand and now I don't get out of work until 6:00! I still have to get up by 6:30 to get the kids off to school so there is no sleeping in benefit either. I am hoping to adjust to this new craziness in the next couple of weeks and somehow find more fun time to spend with my kids! I miss them like crazy and this week has been very hard on all of us, hopefully we will all adjust and it will soon seem normal again.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Austin's school in the news!

What an amazing article I came across today on Austin's school, and to make it even better ~ Austin is in the picture!


New help for Autism By Elizabeth Stuart

Deseret News
Published: Monday, Dec. 28, 2009 9:32 p.m. MST
Pretty soon, Dani Hartog won't have to worry.  She won't have to leave her car idling in the parking lot at Northridge High to drag her 15-year-old son, kicking and screaming, to his classroom. She won't get a tight feeling in her chest whenever the phone rings, wondering if the principal is calling to say the boy, who has autism, is missing again. She won't panic as she rushes from work to her home in South Weber, worried the teenager won't be safe in his usual hideout under the back porch.  Because, pretty soon, Utah will have a public high school specifically designed to address the educational and social needs of children with autism and Asperger syndrome.  "I was so elated when I heard the news, I literally jumped up and down," Hartog said. "The difference between specialized and mainstream education is night and day for my kid." Spectrum Academy, a three-year-old charter school that serves autistic children grades kindergarten through 8th, recently broke ground on a 32,300-square-foot, $5.5 million high school in North Salt Lake. Ninth and 10th grades will be available starting next fall; 11th and 12th grades will follow in 2011 and 2012.
Although one in every 133 Utah children has autism, according to a 2007 report by the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, Spectrum Academy is the only public school of its kind in the state. The high school will be the first in Utah — private or public — to cater to children with autism.

Such specialization runs counter to a federal and state push over the last decade to give children with learning disabilities equal access to a mainstream public education. All Utah public schools, in compliance with the federal Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, offer special education courses but place autistic children in traditional classrooms as frequently as possible.
"Under the current legislation, the presumption is you are going to put a child in a general environment and only add restrictions when it's absolutely necessary," said Richard Robison, executive director of The Federation for Children with Special Needs, a national nonprofit that promotes parental advocacy. "We want our children treated like every other child. We want them to be able to participate in the life of the school. We want them to be safe. We want them to have the appropriate aids and supports in place to help them learn and progress."
Nonetheless, most experts agree that children with autism, who vary in their levels of social, communicative and behavioral impairment, need individualized instruction, whether it be at a traditional school or a specialized school.
Tom Higbee, a professor of special education at Utah State University and one of the nation's foremost autism researchers, called such intervention "critical" to a child's success.

"They just have different learning styles," Higbee said. "It is difficult for children with autism to learn by observation, which is a teaching method a lot of public schools are built around. There's no prototype of a person with autism, so, to be effective, teaching needs to be pretty customized."
With small class sizes and a full staff of teachers certified in special education, a custom education is exactly what Spectrum Academy hopes to provide for autistic teens. There's a teacher's aid in every classroom and full-time occupational and speech therapists, too.
To afford all the extra amenities, the school augments its allotment of state education dollars with some $250,000 a year in private donations,
"The truth is, a lot of children just don't thrive in a traditional school environment," said Jaime Christensen, principal of Spectrum Academy. "For some kids, 'different' is just what they need in order to learn."
Spectrum is, by public school standards, a bit unconventional. Christensen calls the anomalies "tools to help the children excel."
The high school will offer vocational training as well as traditional and special education diplomas. Students on a college track can take concurrent enrollment classes.

Spectrum Academy's curriculum is tailored for the autistic mind and children are divided into grade levels, not by age, but by ability.
"We have high expectations for our kids, but we give them the help they need to rise to those expectations," Christensen said.
Toys are OK as long as students fiddle under their desks and keep their eyes on the teacher. Sitting up straight is optional; students kneel on chairs, slouch down, twist, twirl and kick. Some children trade traditional seats for big, bouncy exercise balls.
"I'm not worrying about that stuff, no way," Christensen said. "If they're doing their work, I'm happy. A lot of times being able to fiddle or wiggle is all these kids need to be able to concentrate."
The hallways are plastered with posters reminding children to "think about other's feelings" and adjust their behavior appropriately. Children, many of whom struggle to connect to peers, get a minimum of 30 minutes of social training a day.
The curriculum works for Kristofer Randall, 12, a seventh grader at Spectrum.
"I don't get stressed out as much at this school," he said. "If things seem loud to me and I get a headache, the teacher lets me take a short break so I can come back and pay attention better."
He's even involved in extracurricular activities. He's a class officer.
"I have lots of friends here and nobody makes fun of me," Randall said. "I'm excited to stay here for high school."
Hartog's son Kolby is pretty pumped about Spectrum, too.
"I hate this school," he tells his mother about Northridge, usually after an hourlong battle to get the boy dressed and on his way. "I hate that I can't do what the other kids do. I hate that everyone treats me different."
For her part, Hartog doesn't even care that she has to send Kolby through 10th grade twice in order to make the move.
"He just doesn't learn the same way everyone else does," she said. "I just want him to get an education and learn how to function in society."

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Weekend Fun!


This year we are trying to do something every weekend with the entire family. 
Yesterday we chose to go to dinner at Buca Di Beppo, and it was fabulous!  We were able to enjoy each others company and eat a great meal together.  (By the way, their antipasta salad is delicious!) 
After dinner, Tim had plans to go to SnoCross with his brothers.  Don and Wendy's family came down and stayed the night with us.  After Lynn picked up Tim and Don, Wendy and I decided we would have a date with the kids.  We took them all to go see The Blindside, which was a great movie.  All in all we had a really good day!

Friday, January 8, 2010

ThE PaRtY oF ThE yEaR...


Danielle and Shailyn
Today Shailyn attended a birthday party for her friend Michelle.  She came home from school with her friend Danielle and they were so excited for "the party of the year".  They tried on numerous outfits, and then put make-up on... (Let me just say now, she is only 10!!).  I had to laugh as I watched how excited they were for this birthday party. (The smile on Shailyn's face says it all in the picture above).  In the end, I made them wash all the make-up off and took them to the party.  When I picked them up, they were both so dissappointed... Apparently all the hype about the party didn't happen and mainly Michelle's family was there with only a few friends.
After seeing all of this, I fear I am in BIG trouble in the years to come... She is already acting as if she were a teenager and I can't imagine what she will be like in a few years!

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Ice Skating!

What a blast we had today! Kaysie has been begging us to take her ice skating.  Tim and I haven't been in about 10 years so we weren't exactly looking forward to it. Today we finally took them!
Shailyn picked up on skating pretty quick, she only fell a few times!

I took this picture of Kaysie just as she stepped onto the ice.  She took a little longer to get the hang of it but by the end she was skating too!


Austin, on the other hand, spent more time falling than any of us.  He is probably going to go back to school tomorrow covered in bruises!  He was a good sport and tried it for about a half hour before crawling (yes, actually crawling) off the ice and calling it quits.



Tim and I really enjoyed watching the kids experience something totally new today! Thanks to Tim's boss Aaron for giving him a Visa card for Christmas that we decided to use on family activities.



Fun With Dad...


This morning I was just getting out of the shower when I heard the kids laughing hysterically at something... I was immediately suspicious and threw on my robe and ventured out into the frontroom.  I found them on the couch with Tim pinned underneath them, all laughing and egging Tim on to try to get up!  They were having so much fun I had to share!

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Hale Center Theatre!

Danna called me this morning and offered us tickets to The Importance of being Earnest at  the Hale Center Theatre.  Tim declined, so the kids and I went on a special date, and it was fabulous! I haven't seen a theatrical performance in years and I truly did enjoy it.  Austin liked about the first 30 minutes, after that it was pure torture for him.  Shailyn and Kaysie both enjoyed it although Kaysie did say she would rather be acting than watching the show. 

Friday, January 1, 2010

Happy New Year!

Wow!  I cannot believe it is already 2010!  So far so good, we started off our new year spending it with Tammi and Bryon's family.  Unfortunately the only pictures I remembered to take were of my drink:

Yes, it was that impressive!
At Midnight we rang in the New Year by a lot of noise makers, goofy string, sparkling apple cider for the kids, and of course a New Year's kiss.
Our New Year's resolution this year is to be more active as a family