Wednesday, March 31, 2010

HAPPY 11th BIRTHDAY SHAILYN!

Poor Shailyn is spending her 11th Birthday on crutches!  She woke up this morning complaining about how bad her arms hurt, what a rotten birthday gift!  

Shailyn has really grown up a lot this past year, she loves talking on the phone, and texting her friends.  she is extremely helpful around the house (the only exception is her bedroom), and is a joy to be around.  Tonight we took her to Red Lobster for dinner and of course she picked crab legs, her favorite food that she only gets once a year.  

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

The Accident...

Today, Shailyn went on a field trip to Classic Skating!  She was so excited, she  worked very hard at school this past month to earn this field trip.
After school my phone rang as it usually does, and I was excited to hear about how her field trip had gone. Unfortunately the first words out of her mouth were "Mom, I need a ride home."  I proceeded to tell her I was at work, and couldn't come to get her, that is when she started bawling.  I stopped mid-sentence and asked her what was wrong, turns out she had a horrible accident during the field trip and fell down the stairs in her rollerblades.  She couldn't put any weight on her left leg!  I called my Mom to see if she could run to the school and grab her (mainly because she lives much closer to the school than I work) and her response was, well I just started the washer and my dishwasher is running.  (Seriously?!) Then she proceeded to offer to call my Dad to see where he was at and ask if he could go grab her.  Luckily, he was able to, thank heavens for my Dad!  I left work immediately and headed to meet them, when I got there Shailyn's knee was about the size of a grapefruit!  So we were off to Insta-Care, and luckily nothing is broken!  However they asked we come back in a couple days so they could check her ligaments.

On the way to there I was questioning Shailyn what had happened.  Unbelievable, that is all I can say!

Shailyn's teacher had to help her get to the bus from the field trip, when they arrived at school another 5th grade teacher helped her into the office.  They gave her an ice pack and told her to sit down until she saw her class come down for lunch.  When she saw her class, another student came to help her get into the line.  Her friend Danielle helped her through the line, and got her food.  After they were done eating, Danielle helped her outside where they sat on the portable steps until the bell rang.  Then she helped Shailyn get up the stairs and to her seat.  Mrs. Laver, Shailyns Teacher asked Danielle to pass out Shailyn's birthday treats because she couldn't do it herself.  Then at the end of the day, Shailyn was dismissed to WALK home.

HELLO?!?  Did it occur to anybody that she couldn't walk?  or that her parents were completely in the dark about this?  I was so furious!  It is a good thing this happened right before spring break because I can only imagine the words that would have come out of my mouth had they been given the chance.

On another note, did you notice how colorful she looks?  We stopped by my house to grab her some sweats because the jeans she wore to school that day wouldn't be good for a doctor's exam.  I grabbed the first things I saw (yes, purple pants, green shoes, and an orange jacket!) all to go with her blue hair that she got at Classic Skating.  I didn't realize that I had just created such a hideous outfit (a little Punky Brewsterish).  Even the radiologist commented on what a rainbow of colors she was.

Friday, March 12, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KAYSIE!



Today, Kaysie turned 9 years old!  Wow, I can't beleive how fast time flies.  It seems like just yesterday Tim and I were bringing her home from the hospital.  

Kaysie chose to get her ears pierced for her birthday.  I can't help but smile every time I look at this picture, she is trying so hard to smile - but looks completely terrified!  She did great though, she only cried for about 20 seconds and then busted up laughing!  

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Puppies Update

Navy is finally letting us near her and the puppies, even letting us hold them sometimes!  We have 8 cute little Border Collies, 1 brown male, 2 gray males, 1 gray female, and 4 black ones... (not sure of their sexes yet).  The kids love having the puppies to keep them entertained, I just hope we have got through to them that they will all be leaving us soon.  Shailyn has adjusted to going to bed after the puppies are done whining, they don't seem to bother Austin at all, and Kaysie is just grateful when Navy lets her see them... I think Navy still blames Kaysie for her pregnancy - which I don't think I ever blogged about come to think about it... It happened when Navy was about 6 weeks pregnant and Kaysie was petting her, assumably one of the babies kicked her and she started growling at Kaysie.  She wouldn't let Kaysie near her the rest of the pregnancy.  (Which by the way has caused my daughter to become an emotional roller coaster which has made this whole event that much more stressful!)

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Puppies!


Last night Navy finally had her puppies!  8 healthy little ones... They are all so cute and tiny but she won't let any of us near them (Or her for that matter).  After the first one was born (above) she seemed to be okay with Tim in the room but then when the second one started coming she wasn't having an audience.  She growled at all of us when we would try to peek in at her progress.  I am just grateful they are all healthy and Mom's doing alright!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Hi Ho... Hi Ho... It's back to work I go...

Monday I started a new job for A&T Plumbing as their Office Manager. Boy has it been strange! I got to work on Monday and the owner Andre explains to me that he has no idea what the person does that sits behind my desk and hands me a stack of paperwork that needs to be done. He proceeds to leave my office and head upstairs. Good thing I didn't exaggerate in my interview! Luckily I was able to figure out their process pretty quickly and as of 4:00 today I have accomplished the last 2 months worth of work. I am not sure whether this is a good or a bad thing... I am hoping there is more to my job than I am seeing although I highly doubt it. I honestly can't see how this can remain a full time job, but I will remain hopeful until I get my head around all of it. The worst thing about going back to work has definitely been my schedule, in order to accommodate Austin's carpool I requested to start work at 9:30. Well, I didn't really do the math beforehand and now I don't get out of work until 6:00! I still have to get up by 6:30 to get the kids off to school so there is no sleeping in benefit either. I am hoping to adjust to this new craziness in the next couple of weeks and somehow find more fun time to spend with my kids! I miss them like crazy and this week has been very hard on all of us, hopefully we will all adjust and it will soon seem normal again.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Austin's school in the news!

What an amazing article I came across today on Austin's school, and to make it even better ~ Austin is in the picture!


New help for Autism By Elizabeth Stuart

Deseret News
Published: Monday, Dec. 28, 2009 9:32 p.m. MST
Pretty soon, Dani Hartog won't have to worry.  She won't have to leave her car idling in the parking lot at Northridge High to drag her 15-year-old son, kicking and screaming, to his classroom. She won't get a tight feeling in her chest whenever the phone rings, wondering if the principal is calling to say the boy, who has autism, is missing again. She won't panic as she rushes from work to her home in South Weber, worried the teenager won't be safe in his usual hideout under the back porch.  Because, pretty soon, Utah will have a public high school specifically designed to address the educational and social needs of children with autism and Asperger syndrome.  "I was so elated when I heard the news, I literally jumped up and down," Hartog said. "The difference between specialized and mainstream education is night and day for my kid." Spectrum Academy, a three-year-old charter school that serves autistic children grades kindergarten through 8th, recently broke ground on a 32,300-square-foot, $5.5 million high school in North Salt Lake. Ninth and 10th grades will be available starting next fall; 11th and 12th grades will follow in 2011 and 2012.
Although one in every 133 Utah children has autism, according to a 2007 report by the Center for Disease Control and Prevention, Spectrum Academy is the only public school of its kind in the state. The high school will be the first in Utah — private or public — to cater to children with autism.

Such specialization runs counter to a federal and state push over the last decade to give children with learning disabilities equal access to a mainstream public education. All Utah public schools, in compliance with the federal Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, offer special education courses but place autistic children in traditional classrooms as frequently as possible.
"Under the current legislation, the presumption is you are going to put a child in a general environment and only add restrictions when it's absolutely necessary," said Richard Robison, executive director of The Federation for Children with Special Needs, a national nonprofit that promotes parental advocacy. "We want our children treated like every other child. We want them to be able to participate in the life of the school. We want them to be safe. We want them to have the appropriate aids and supports in place to help them learn and progress."
Nonetheless, most experts agree that children with autism, who vary in their levels of social, communicative and behavioral impairment, need individualized instruction, whether it be at a traditional school or a specialized school.
Tom Higbee, a professor of special education at Utah State University and one of the nation's foremost autism researchers, called such intervention "critical" to a child's success.

"They just have different learning styles," Higbee said. "It is difficult for children with autism to learn by observation, which is a teaching method a lot of public schools are built around. There's no prototype of a person with autism, so, to be effective, teaching needs to be pretty customized."
With small class sizes and a full staff of teachers certified in special education, a custom education is exactly what Spectrum Academy hopes to provide for autistic teens. There's a teacher's aid in every classroom and full-time occupational and speech therapists, too.
To afford all the extra amenities, the school augments its allotment of state education dollars with some $250,000 a year in private donations,
"The truth is, a lot of children just don't thrive in a traditional school environment," said Jaime Christensen, principal of Spectrum Academy. "For some kids, 'different' is just what they need in order to learn."
Spectrum is, by public school standards, a bit unconventional. Christensen calls the anomalies "tools to help the children excel."
The high school will offer vocational training as well as traditional and special education diplomas. Students on a college track can take concurrent enrollment classes.

Spectrum Academy's curriculum is tailored for the autistic mind and children are divided into grade levels, not by age, but by ability.
"We have high expectations for our kids, but we give them the help they need to rise to those expectations," Christensen said.
Toys are OK as long as students fiddle under their desks and keep their eyes on the teacher. Sitting up straight is optional; students kneel on chairs, slouch down, twist, twirl and kick. Some children trade traditional seats for big, bouncy exercise balls.
"I'm not worrying about that stuff, no way," Christensen said. "If they're doing their work, I'm happy. A lot of times being able to fiddle or wiggle is all these kids need to be able to concentrate."
The hallways are plastered with posters reminding children to "think about other's feelings" and adjust their behavior appropriately. Children, many of whom struggle to connect to peers, get a minimum of 30 minutes of social training a day.
The curriculum works for Kristofer Randall, 12, a seventh grader at Spectrum.
"I don't get stressed out as much at this school," he said. "If things seem loud to me and I get a headache, the teacher lets me take a short break so I can come back and pay attention better."
He's even involved in extracurricular activities. He's a class officer.
"I have lots of friends here and nobody makes fun of me," Randall said. "I'm excited to stay here for high school."
Hartog's son Kolby is pretty pumped about Spectrum, too.
"I hate this school," he tells his mother about Northridge, usually after an hourlong battle to get the boy dressed and on his way. "I hate that I can't do what the other kids do. I hate that everyone treats me different."
For her part, Hartog doesn't even care that she has to send Kolby through 10th grade twice in order to make the move.
"He just doesn't learn the same way everyone else does," she said. "I just want him to get an education and learn how to function in society."